Easy to say sia...
I
believe everyone will opt for a peaceful life anytime BUT, there is
a limit to tolerance right?
Some of us get riled easily but some of us can 'loon' very long.
But everyone will still feel anger especially when being accused
for doing or saying something that is not said or done. We can also
get angry with insults that we don't deserve. Naggy people will
always drive us up the wall. Dishonest, insincere and liars make
our blood boil. Being made to feel like a blardy fool will also
cause us to react defensively.
There are thousands of ways PEOPLE can irk us to mild to extreme
anger. It is at that stage when we feel 'hate'. Hatred for the
cruel words/actions, hatred for the wrongs done to us, hatred for
the wicked, the snobs and the evil doers.
In a way, hatred is not totally bad. But to carry deep resentments
in the heart is bad.
We are not living in la-la land. There are people we can get along
well for many years. But there are people we best disassociate with
because of the vast difference in beliefs, goals and train of
thoughts. Through mankind's instinctive sense of preservation, it
is natural to avoid any form of conflicts. Some do it by shying
away, others by bull-dozing their authority over others.