Don't get me wrong. I never said asking is against the law.
Anyway, I'm kinda tired from answering your questions. I'm not an
expert in these matter, neither am I super smart but at least I
have the basic knowledge to understand myself and apply
common-sense to know why rape and molest is wrong and unpleasant
for females instead of going around and asking people with the risk
of offending the mass..
My advice, before asking something as sensitive, try to figure it
out yourself first...