Kinda agree with u. If u have a big grp of frds.... or prehaps
many different grps of frds.. The cost of celebrating a birthday is
high too! U can try to pretend / smoke pass ur birthday. But when
ppls gather and wanna celebrate for u, u cant be so thickskin n say
"pai seh.... i never think of u all in my bd celebration. my budget
not tat high." 
