okie, below text might not be true for u guys,
however, it is quite good
Its that time of year: Birds are chirping, flowers are budding,
and people are coming down with cases of spring fever. Is your
giddy seasonal buzz the result of a blossoming new relationshipor
merely a case of hormones coming out of hibernation? Our love quiz
will tell you.
1. You catch yourself smiling when you think about your new
dates:
a. Body and how it looks in those jeans and that tight shirt.
b. Similar tastes to yoursyou guys have been having a lot of fun
together.
c. Latest endearing storyhe or she always has a way to make you
grin.
2. Your dreamboat is chattering on and on about a friends work
drama. You find yourself:
a. Miles away. No offense, but its not like you know the person he
or she is talking about, so you dont have to cling to every
word.
b. Trying to be supportive in between thoughts of what youre doing
next.
c. Completely absorbed in the conversation.
3. You see your amour covered in sweat and dirt after doing yard
work and think:
a. Grossshower time!
b. Well, its a good thing he/she is comfortable letting me see
him/her that way.
c. Wow, this person even looks great when muddy!
4. Youre out late with some friends, but think of your new
sweetie:
a.
Well, you dont. You were having a blast with your pals.
b. Off and on, when the conversation reminds you of him/her.
c. Every three seconds. You even sneak into the bathroom to give
him/her an I wish you were here call.
5. You cant wait to introduce your new friend to your:
a. Loveseat and maybe your dog.
b. Friends. Theyre cool and will like each other.
c. Mom, dad, sister, brother, aunt, co-workers, grade-school pals,
etc.
6. A song that you heard playing on your first night out together
comes on. You:
a. Change the station
Barry White is much more in tune with your
current vibe.
b. Start to sing along playfully with your date.
c. Swoon and consider confessing that you now think of this as
your song.
7. You find yourself making plans with this person:
a. When youre dialing his or her number on Friday afternoon to see
if he/she can come over to your place that night.
b. A few days in advance. You like making plans to spend time
together.
c. Well into the future. Youre totally comfortable talking about
4th of July, summer vacations, beyond!
Now count how many times you answered A, B, and C, and read below
for the scoop on your sweetie.
Mostly As: Its a lust thing.
So your hormones are on high drivethats not necessarily a bad
thing, as long as youre both on the same page. And realize that
your current relationship probably isnt designed to grow into
something more. If all you do is spend time together physically,
you dont really know the person at all, so youre basically
dealing with an image of him or her that youve made up, says
Laurie Puhn, J.D., author of Instant Persuasion. That means that
any emotional intimacy you feel is based on your own perception of
your lover and how he or she should act and treat younot reality.
And if only one of you becomes emotionally invested, someone will
get hurt. So enjoy your time together as long as its fun, but if
the other person is clearly feeling a deeper connection, its time
to have a serious (and honest) talk about where your head is at in
this relationship.
Mostly Bs: You two have relationship potential.
Guess what? Though Im just having fun is your m.o., you might
actually be bonding more than you think. The problem is that it can
feel like youre dating in a gray area, because culturally, were
on a mostly-As or mostly-Cs planet. People today tend to either
just hook up or be exclusive boyfriend/girlfriend, and weve lost
this middle ground where you get to know someone, says Puhn. But
thats actually a healthy place to be, because not having any heavy
expectations is the way most real relationships begin! You can
begin to discover if this is someone you respect and trust, and
judge him or her not on words, but actions, says Puhn. So forget
pressure to define thingsinstead of limiting you, this type of
relationship is the most freeing early on because you get to decide
whether to take the next step on your terms. All aboard the B
line!
Mostly Cs: You have a case of spring feverand maybe much
more.
Lucky youyoure head over heels in love! No doubt everything is a
little bit sweeter right now, but before you sail into the future,
make sure you havent lost yourself in the present! In these early,
heady days when you want to see your cutie all the time, its easy
to make dating your priority. But if you dont make the
relationship part of your everyday world, you may wake up one day
and wonder What happened to my life? Right now youre setting up
patterns of behavior that will last throughout your entire
relationship. If you make this person the center of everything you
do, thats what he or she will expect six months or a year from
now, says Puhn. So what should you do? Perhaps you miss a date to
make a friends party or admit that you dont actually like live
jazz. Boundaries let your honey fall in love with who you really
are (even if its not a jazz fan) and pave the way for a
longer-lasting, happier partnership. So go ahead and be
crazy-in-love; just dont forget who you are in the process!
Kimberly Dawn Neumann is a writer based in New York City who has
contributed to Fitness, Womens Health, and
weightwatchers.com.
From:MSN.COM
