What should I say? It's a dog eat dog world out there.
If her boyfriend treats her that bad, it seems that he doesn't have
any more feeling towards her. THIS, is a heaven-given chance for
you to express to her what you felt all these years about
her.
Yes, there is some risk that you may ruin your friendship with her.
She may not feel the same about you. But Carpe Diem! Forget about
the risk calculation, keep that for your calculator. This is your
heart we are talking about!, not some Math problems. If you don't
say out what you really feel, how will you know how she really
feels???
How long is many years? must be more than 2 years, maybe 3 or 4
years? Have it ever occured to you that one day she may leave you
for good (as a friend of course). Nowadays more and more
singaporeans are relocating, migrating to other countries, because
let's face it, singapore is small and too competitive to live in,
anyway back to the topic. It will be too LATE for you to do
anything. Have you tried long distance relationship before? Let me
tell you, out of 5 ldr cases that I knew of, 3 broke up within 6
months of separating.
Spend more time with her these few weeks. Show to her that you
really cared about her, more than usual friendship. Let her know
that you will always be there for her. One of the reason why she's
still clinging to her current boyfriend may well be because she is
feeling insecure! Eventually, find a good time to admit your
feelings to her.
If she doesn't respond the way we would like her to, don't give up!
What you really want is for her to be happy right? If you are
unable to give her the happiness she wants, maybe someone else can,
but he's definitely not her current boyfriend.
Hope I am not making you more confused than you already have,
wenchu. Just that I have seen this scenario too many times, where a
guy and a girl play this waiting game. Hoping to get as many
indication of affection from the other party, before attempting to
show his/her true feelings. Sadly, life is no cinderella
story.
Enough said. Got a question, is there any other faster way to see
new post to the topic rather than reloading the page every few
minutes?
