Platonic friendships?

RandomFruit SG

I'm just kicking myself right now!

There used to be a girl i worshipped and we were very good friends ... but then she kept on mentioning the phrase 'platonic friendship' until i totally gave up ever chasing her and concentrated on our friendship.

I just found out today that she had a huge crush on me at that time ... �^&$%^#!!!

*sigh*

Is there really such a thing as a platonic relationship? Or are all relationships always doomed to develop into something more?

e|mo SG

platonic relationship is possible but also have to depends on both parties... Rolling Eyes

anfuni SG

platonic do exist....
but are u able to handle it its another problem..
good luck to u, cheerss

danger7755 SG

yes, i belive in platonic friendship between the opposite sex. i've this girl friend whom i've known for 7 yrs liao, i was in ns then. out relationship have all along been platonic, it's mutual.

tho we can juz come out together alone, talk abt anything under the sun, including sex, BGRs, and even our closest secrets, but it never developed into any romance. and i'm happy to stay that way.

e|mo SG

hmmm...
i have a kor kor.. known for 4yrs and ongoing Mr. Green
really had lots of fun.... and he also dote on me
the two of us are juz purely platonic friendship

Si|verGer SG

it does exists but in most cases it will eventually turn out to b more than platonic frenship. . .
but dat r purely platonic frenship it does exists coz dat always sum kinds of ppl whereby u knw they can b v v gd frenxs,sum1 to b by u, sum1 who accept the way u r & understand u v well but dat no special feeling. . . the chemistry juz dun exist at all! Wink

anfuni SG

true true... heehee..... thats y i say must take cares~ haha
wait platonic become bgr then die...

Si|verGer SG

it wum die depends on case n situation sum will b better in bgr but sum might nt. . .
den the final q is if in the end u can still remain as fren anot

RandomFruit SG

yea remaining as friends is hard. oh well ... chalk up another regret on the ole board..

highflyer SG

agree with danger7755 that some platonic friendship will not develop into anything. u can talk & share about anything but the feeling is just not there. but good point is that your know each other really well. if the girl got crush in you, some like to start & emphasize on platonic friendship. how u develop it into romance really depends on how u do. cant rush but got to take a step at a time..

mr_cool SG

Sometime it is good to let something off the chest asked and used your heart to feel.

HystericalDustdevil SG

agreed!!....why does the "Big Guy" up there gives us a mouth??It's for asking...speaking...voicing out ur feelings,thinkings,....smths r better to b kept inside...but sm should b voice out especially when it involves 2 parties n above...for ur case there...do u think the crush will develope positively??!! No one knows rite?? If she still has feelings for u...there'll be another crush...for sure... Wink by then...juz accept the fact that u've missed a mayb wonderful chance, n try to b more sensitive next time.... Twisted Evil

Si|verGer SG

ya i agreed sumtime it juz so hard to control ur feelings but then u will put risk at ur frenship. . .haizz sumtime it juz so difficult

xavier1979 SG

I realize platonic friendship develops over a long period of time.

windwizard SG

Smile hahahahaha
sure regreted it rite it could b the atart of a beutiful relation

playing mindgames is certainly veri tiring if i were u at that time confirm won't give up wan maybe she kept using the word bocs trying to improve her english hinting u if u waana stay tat way

a phrase r u ...... to live without trying is to live with regret to live with regret is to live with an unfinished business and burden

kopiosatu SG

platonic friendships are possible... but u gotta get over the crush phase...

once u get over the fact that love isn't gonna happen, the frenship comes in.

then again i could be wrong, coz some ppl just have this barrier that stops at friendship lor...

everyone's different, u wouldn't know what's gonna happen