AMEN56789 SG do u? i used to have problems doing so... but as i grow older.. and through lots of practices.. i no longer find it uncomfortable making eye contacts liao.^^ wad abt u?
udontknowme SG i dont sometimes i do...depends on who im talking to... but usually look a couple of seconds then i'll look somewhere else...
AMEN56789 SG actually its a matter of self confidence... usually if u dun dare make eye contact...ur most likely to be not confident about ur image or other things
the Bear SG i find that when i do, i scare the crap out of some people... so sometimes.. depends on the person
TrixCereals SG when i was in lower secondary, i never bothered to make eye contact while talking. i will just stare into a space beside the person and talk. then later on, i mysteriously started making proper eye contacts.
dahliamorie SG i used to not look at the person but it came to me naturally when i got older. it’s like a sense of affirmation when you’re talking to that person or listening to him. and respect too i guess. it’s not very nice if you fiddle with your fingernails or hair or look at the thing behind that person when you talk right..