How to coax the wife?

last SG · 2007-03-06T03:34:23+00:00

No wonder.......... Rich-man daughter....... haha.... she's so called spoiled-brat la.... wat to do... too bad for ur guy fren.... That's e diff btw u n ur g...

Honeybunz SG

How does a man coax his wife if his wife suspects him of cheating?

SGpork SG

buy her a 30k tiffany diamond ring

Rolling Eyes

FireIce SG

wah..........wats the story?

Honeybunz SG

seriously lah. Anyway or not?

My friend's wife suspected him and me (cuz we work together). I offered to do the explanation, but my friend said dun wan for fear that it might complicate the matter. He looked very down today.

soulwinner SG

I bring her to meet all my female friend.... Very Happy

alexkusu SG

well, is he cheating in the first place?

Bontakun SG

Get a friend, preferably neutral in the stand and someone whom his wife knows too as friend. Ask that friend be the 'Dan Bao Ren' for your colleague to be accountable to so he can explain to the wife what is he doing.

No biasing, no prejudice. Accountability is important and will help alot.

Gackt247 SG

Is there another meaning to it? Laughing

Honeybunz SG

Actually I also dunno. Was on leave and tonight just went back to office to do my work and tomorrow on leave again. Only this afternoon then I got to know. But dunno how it started cuz my friend didn't tell me all the details. Only know that the wife questioned him. But I didn't ask him what he replied to his wife.

Fatum SG

ask him to go ramp up his "yang" with tonic and such ... and try to bonk his wifey every night ...

if he can keep up this performance, then his wifey would know he's not straying, eh ? ...

after all ... if he's getting bonks on the side, he'd be too exhausted and un-interested in the wifey eh ....

Honeybunz SG

From now on, if he goes home on time, stops going clubbing with friends and colleagues, will it help?

Bontakun SG

Only temporary. In da end he still needs to gain the trust of his wife. Its smth only he can do liao.

alexkusu SG

so must comfort wife that he is not cheating, or that he cheated and wont do it again?

liddat ma

Gackt247 SG

Marriage is such a scary thing. Shocked Confused

Honeybunz SG

Do you think women are forgiving to cheating husbands? I am speaking of in general.

I know gf are not so forgiving, cuz dump the bf can find a better one. But in the case of a married couple, somemore got kid one, do you think the wife will forgive?

Bontakun SG

There is a limit to how much can the wife forgive... There will come a time when she can take it no longer and seeks a divorce or at least a confrontation.

And yesh... marriage without proper preparation is SCARY.

Gackt247 SG

There are those who forgive, those in denial n those who divorce straight away. Juz tt there's no statistics nia.

Cool-gal SG

if ur coli belongs to the older generation, maybe the chance of divorce will not be high.
i have frenz or relatives who have a cheating husband but are stil together.
alot of factors to think la.
if ur coli is clear of conscience then no pro wad.

Honeybunz SG

I think this is the first time it happens to my friend cuz he seemed quite lost and helpless while talking about it (if he kenna accused before, he shld know what to do liao).

So if this is the first time, and if the wife still insists he cheats or maybe he did cheat & got caught, do you think the wife will give chance?

Bontakun SG

Possibly... as long as the hub assure her she will not suspect of him cheating again bah...