L O V E - A Journey
Why hold someone back... when u know u don't love them...
> > Why keep them to yourself... when u know you won't wanna
have them?
> > Why let them miss other chances...when they can have
them? If you really
> > don't love someone....le them go...hurt them NOW... not
later...for a
> > longer relationship builds stronger emotions...
> >
> > A good relationship isn't a game you play or an ego trip
you take. It is
> > about love and two people.
> > Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever
know and it can
> > hurt more than we can believe too.
> > When it does not really hurt when that person did
something
disappointing
> > to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain
and sadness,
> then
> > you know you truly love that person.
> > Loving someone means you should be ready to experience
heartache and
> > happiness at the same time.That's the reward and that's
the risk. Unless
> we
> > are willing to experience it, we will never really know
what it's like
to
> > love and be loved.
> > Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful
experience a
> > person can ever have.And there's a difference between
being in love with
> > someone and loving someone.
> > It's the difference between a love that's fickle,wild and
short-lived
and
> > one that's tender and passionate,nurturing and lasts a
long time. The
> first
> > is easy.
> > The second, the one that really matters to all of
us,takes work because
> > it's about keeping a relationship.
> > Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to
communicate with
each
> > other. Nobody can read anyone else's mind. We always
presume that our
> > partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we
might be able to
> > predict or sense each other's thoughts but it's
> > never perfect and takes time to develop. Getting the
chance to love and
> be
> > loved by someone is blessed.
> > Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want
him/her to be.
> > Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special
way. No one is
> > perfect.
> > It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to
form a smooth
> > surface of acceptance for each other.
> > True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It
is also true
> love
> > which makes a person change for the better. The power of
true love to a
> > person is undeniable.
> > A relationship needs commitments too. What is love
without commitments
> from
> > each other anyway? It's like principles and values.
Everyone has them
but
> > they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for
them.
> > The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and
the person we
> love.
> >
> > "Love is like an antique vase. It's hard to find,hard to
net, but easy
to
> > break."
> > Every day everywhere, people fall in love ... but just
how many of these
> > relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just
relationships
which
> > are formed only for the intense! feeling of falling in
love? I know
> > hundreds of friends who say the magical words "I love
you"... but more
> > often than not, the truth is just I am IN love with
you.
> > There is a difference between being in love with someone
and loving
> > someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you,
he/she means that
> > he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in
love with you
> > because of the present you. This kind of love is
> > temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale
lasts.
> > When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us
back to reality,
we
> > see the heartache of such a relationship... where both
were only IN love
> > with each other. But if a person says he/she loves you,
he/she means
that
> > he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who
you were in
the
> > past and who you might be in the future.
> > When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it,you
have to ask
> > yourself if you love him/her too or if you're in love
with the idea of
> > being in love. It is very hard to see the difference
through logical
> > thinking. Let your heart guide u. May you be
blessed
> > on your soul-searching journey = for your soul
mate.
> > ARE YOU REALLY IN LOVE? ASK YOURSELF!
> > Is this true love? Do I really love him/her? Or izzit
just another
> > infatuation? R U willing to give? Even though you may not
get back the
> > same amount you gave?
> > R U cheating yourself? Thinking that you really love
him/her and not
just
> > taking him/her as a substitute for your
ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?
Friends,
> > let today be the day....... you truly understand
love.......
> > If after reading this and answering all the questions,you
are very sure
> > that you love him/her,tell him/her that. Let him/her know
how much you
> love
> > him/her and that you are willing to take the risks of
being hurt by
> him/her
> > in the course of the development
> > of your relationship with him/her. This is a love that's
sacrificial, R
U
> > ready for it? If you accept someone's philosophy that is
simply their
> > rationalisation to justify their failure, you accept
their failures!"
> >
> > **The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did
not take.** If
> you
> > think something will make you happy, go for it.
> > **Remember that we pass this way only once.**
> >
> > YoU cAn'T mAkE sOmEoNe LoVe YoU, aLl YoU cAn Do Is Be
SoMeOnE wHo CaN bE
> > lOvEd, ThE rEsT iS uP tO tHe PeRsOn To ReAlIzE yOuR
wOrTh~
