from the experiences around my friends, nowadays youngsters dun
like their boyfrd or girlfrd to be very religious. 
i have one example to share. i have a grilfrd due to certain type
of yuan, sprits or god always possess her to convey message.it is
not within her ability to reject.after long negotiation, they come
to an agreement. she will have to tiao dang at a temple during guan
im's birthday.but she got to be a vegetarian. 
she is a shenton way girl, work in a bank, from a nice family
previously who dun believe in tis type of thing.
when she hav a new boyfrd, she dun dare to tell them, bcos
everytime she tell the truth, her boyfrd will leave her. she cannot
hide the secret either, bcos after she tiao dang, her body will
leave a lot of bruises and scar. 
will you accept a person with these responsibility?
