i am in a similar situation as you too. my bf travels on
frequent business trips & i totally freaked out when i first
discovered that he carries condoms in his toiletries bag. the first
few times i kept quiet abt it & resorted to counting the before
& after no. of condoms every trip. luckily , there's was no
decrease or increase in inventory count. eventually i confronted
& ask him if he sleeps with other women on overseas trips &
he said no & gave me a promise that he would never do that.
those condoms are still in his toiletries bag but he gave me a
promise so i will trust him too. but if he ever use one of it next
time, at least i know i am protected frm funni diseases before i
dump him rite?
so prehaps you would like to talk to him about it & tell him
your worries & fears instead of "hu si luan siang " & "shan
gan qing" but should one day you ever find that condom missing
& you are not the one responsible for it to be missing, give
him hell!