Q_boy SG hi me new here..just signed up.. Qns is as above. I would like to add an additional qn. How Close are u with your gf aft u break ?
toothie SG i would.. coz i find.. it is meaningless to hide something to someone whom are special to u at tat moment... and for me.. there aint any secret for me to keep. coz i find tat bf or frenz or wad.. should be frank to one another... about life after relationship.. for me, juz treasure those moments together lor.. once break liaoz.. tat is it... no more frenz liaoz...
mylow SG Agree. If that someone is so special to u, y hide? If u cant even share ideas, things ... how to share life with the person? Bottling up is not a healthy sign in any relationships... A bottle that is full of things will overflow and mite even burst.. depending on wat's stored inside.
Si|verGer SG dat depends. .. erm muz c hw long u wif ur partner. . . tin muz at least 3mths den i will began to open up. erm ya most after break is still frenxs. . .
GIJOE SG I think we all need to have our own personal spaces n secrets... so it actually depends on individual. There might be some sad memories that u don't wanna say it out afraid that it might affectthis new relationship...as for me, i will say wat i can say. e rest is up to her to ask, if she ask then i will/might say lor...if not then i willl not.
zacken99 SG dun tell is one thing,hide is 1 thing,bluff is anotther.... can take those dun tell,but can accept thse who hide n bluff... i tell every but dun gt the treatment bk...gers nowadays like to hide n bluff think its in nw?
jOhO SG i do tell all.. for me i think the problem is not whether i will tell, is whether she can handle the truth.
sun_flower SG me don tell me bf everything…being a couple doesn’t mean you have to become “one person”...have to maintain your individuality and privacy…
sgboy2004 SG Life after a relationship: Interesting... cos I got this ex...she is the quite open type lah... when she c me, she will give me a kiss on my cheek still...of course not infront of my gf lah. Guess we are mature enough and know wat we are doing...a peg on the cheek is just a friendly sign for her...we do not have that kind of feeling for each other...just friends...and of course we have had our good times together before...but those are in the past. As for another ex... she will avoid me... even when I went up to say Hi, she will mumble some excuses and disappear. As for my current gf, we respect each other's space, and we set aside at least an hour a week to talk abt our feelings and doubts...
Storm SG I always tell my gf (past and present) everything... i use it to build up her trust in me. Because I know how shitty it feels when you cannot trust your other half... It also makes life easier for me. No need to come up with lies, no need to think of excuses. No need to fight with my conscience...
marlboro SG I'm rather open wif my gf(though i dun have 1 now ) in the sense that, I will tell her before I do something, for example, if I'm going clubbing, wif who and if I pick up any chick . But I dun really like telling her abt my past cos I dun think it make any difference although if she asks anything, I will tell. As for ex-gfs, I've managed to remain as friends wif most of them except 1 or 2... a couple of exs even became my "consultant" in relationships
Q_boy SG Hmmmm....but sometimes i think u cannot tell everything one...cos sometimes i feel that a personal space is needed for everyone. Some people do not want to remain as friends even after they break.....this is true.. do u think that is cos they cannot forget the relationship ? or is it becos it has just changed to hate( love change to hate ) ?? its amazing how special moments spent together and such loving people can end up one party hating the other after it is over... how fast the change is . dont u think so ? hey the gal in the picture is quite pretty . me seldom on net so pardon me if u seldom see me reply
