friendship problem need advice!!!

xrauss SG

sigh.. i got a fren let call him Q bah . noe him since sec sch till now after ite
during studying ite . Q get to know a gal on net and went on date . and he been influence by the gal and recently he changes alot . in the past he can take jokes and craps but now when u intend to joke to him .. he will say something unpleasant to suan you .. and every conversation become a kinda quarrel but not quarrel with mi . cos i seldom talk . and he even wan to had a fight with his own cousin because of jay zhou topic ... and today he planned some events and invited us .. he invited us 1 week ago .. many agree with him but today all called him and told him cant make it .. and i was just trying to care .. so go sms my fren why u all nv go ..
but to my mistake i went to msg Q instead ...
i smsed

he changed mah and why no one wanted to accompany him go clarke (the place he planned the event)

i was stun after the moment i msg .. i off my hp for 10min and on it ..saw 4 missed call from him
so i called all my frens to discuss and all indeed agree that he had changed
i know i was so dumb to sms wrong people lols.
and now if wanna explain to him
he also cant take it .. cos he wanted to win in everything and think he good in everything he do ..
what he care most are money and girlfriend
and friend dun really matter in his mind
SO i need some advice ...

dahliamorie SG

shouldnt this be in aunt agony?

Patrik SG

Jialat.
He wil hu si ran xiang and think that u guys are all ganging up to boycott him.

gigabyte14 SG

he die liao la.

only when he kena dump den he will learn his lesson

soulwinner SG

Forget about it… I felt helpless many time since I can’t solve all my friend problem. As long as u know you have done you best.. Why bother???? Now is up to him whether he want to cherish this friendship?

xrauss SG

sigh last 2 day cNY i call him out .. he act a loner and wanted to stay at home ..so i ask his small brother and his small brother agree but i was thinkin i dun wan to force them .. becos if Q come out he will suan mi liao .. and next day .. i mit them 3pm .. to my surprise his brother came out only .. and Q come out after 1hr later wtf is this ? and recently 2-3 months i only contact his brother only … do u think he noe i already boycotting him ?

gigabyte14 SG

time will tell boy, time will tell...

let nature take it's course. just dun care abt him, let him do some soul searching.

xrauss SG

ya lor but i sms wrongly sia do i need to apologise ? it wont matter that if he wanna give up this friendship .. and do all your friends keep giving you missed call and expect u to reply ? he one of those .. that why all my frens are not happy with him but tell him the fact .. he cant take it cos he insist he is right .

gigabyte14 SG

as i said, dun care abt him...

u say sry for wat? nt ur fault oso wat... he's the one who's changed, not u.

u 2 very long frenship already?

xrauss SG

can say his closest fren is mi but after he knew a 14 yrs old gal ( his gf ) ..he changed totally ... his cousin say his gf xiao mei mei he wanna beat him.. and quarrel until grandparent hse .. he now 20 ..
in the past he listen to my advice ..and i ask him to change this and that ..
but recently he take my advice for granted.. treat it like craps
sigh

gigabyte14 SG

u mean... 6 yrs difference age?

i dun mind the age, but he is gettin too protective of the girl.

i dun see any wrong abt saying xiao mei mei, its the truth too...

i feel like whacking dis kind of person.

jus dun care him la xrauss. let him be.

i reckon dat his gf is the act cute kind?

and is realli gf or jus tok tok onli?

proof?

xrauss SG

we tell him off before they were on a relationship ..
i tell him to introduced that gal to her younger brother cos same age
but he is the type that emo recently for small matter
my fren Q spend abt $100 on her on valentine ..
xiao mei mei needa spend 100$ ?
and Q very stingy de like to save $$
my frens told mi to go on as if nth happen ..
if he nv call mi out let it be
but the problem is his younger brother
i found him rather different from Q
and hope that he can still come out when Q break the frenship ..

Chris1988 SG

seriously.. 14 not matured yet.

this one lagi jia lat. 20 years old. still cannot think like 20 years old.

Patrik SG

He will wake up his idea one day.
Let him learn things the hard way.
When they break up and he realise that everything he had done was in vain,money gone,every thing gone,he will come to his senses.

xrauss SG

hope so
but do you think that his brother will still treat mi as fren ?
cos i treat him so gud and he treat mi not bad oso
at least we can take jokes and craps and wont suan each other
but BLOOD is thicker than water ..
sigh

gigabyte14 SG

ya, i can tell his bro n u can make rather gd frens already.

but seriously, $100 for valentine's gift for a 14 yr old? if is matured minded i dun mind.

it's like the girl onli wans the money and playin around wif him liddat

xrauss SG

i regreted that i only get to know her brother better since 3 mths ago
cos the way he tok in net already makes mi trusted him ..
and when im lonely i call him out .. he came out to accompany on my sake .
time r running short i goin enlistment soon at april ..
so it troubles mi sia
forgot to tell u all that Q is a quite big size guy
and i do think the gal wan his $$ only and make use of him
she childish of cos .. plps stare at her .. she call Q for advice .. wtf ?

gigabyte14 SG

u mean she realli is still the child-like personality? walao.

sry to say dat but i tink ur fren is *ahem* sumhow desperate.

xrauss SG

yah becos he over weight guy
so he tend to get 1 xiao mei mei on net
he treasure her like siao ..
and if u suan him like u always accompany ur gf la ..
then he will say when i nv come out ?
kinda lame out of topic

gigabyte14 SG

i can guess the scenario liao...
overweight guy met xiao mei mei on net, probably online games, irc...
den meet up, he likes her, pour his life on her... but she still treat him like a fren onli...
ppl giving advice means creating trouble. you dunno wat to do...

am i rite?