I will write a short thing (for the first time in my
life).
problems disappear when you stop focusing on them (especially in
relationships. as in, not just bg relationship, but also between
family, friend, etc)
Evidence:
- My best guy friend who kinda got into a bg relationship with me
(kinda early huh) stopped talking to me completely after he liked
someone else, but after I stopped viewing him as my
ex-bestguyfriend/whatever, I stopped trying to avoid him
purposely.
Explanation:
- I started to play basketball with my other guy friends again,
without trying to stay out of his way, and he started talking to me
again. (Come on, it's kind of hard not to when you're on the same
court.) Maybe its also 'cause, before, I was pushing him away,
because I expected us to be best friends forever, and when we
couldnt just talk like we used to, I got ...irritated.
I've been reading Aunt Agony recently, and everyone seems to have
some kinda problem. Y'know, with girls/guys (more often, its
girls). But maybe it just needs time. Or maybe it's time to start
putting your focus on other things.
Yeah. (Okay, it wasnt so short after all. Sorry...)
