Xephone_xenon SG Are we using this term "love" too easily when it comes to BGR? For example. Some guy has been physically attracted to some other chiobu. And start to think that he "love' her. And start to jot on how much he love her in his own webblog or note book. Start to have fantasies of himself being with her and so on. I tot love in BGR is something that needs time to be slowly made out together by both willing parties? Having mutual respect for each other and stuff. Why are people nowdays using this term like so easily?
udontknowme SG there are many different types of love love between parent and child love between siblings love between friends love between gf and bf... etc... of course...many pple also take lust and infatuation for love... but hey...INITIALLY it does feel like love... to them... ahahah...
Xephone_xenon SG Oh okay. What i am talking about here is BGR. I can understand the love between relatives and close friends.
Xiao Jun SG I've been told that love dispels all fears by my closest friends... But through my perception...I think that lust diepels all fears...not love... That's why so many people say it...but its so very difficult to find one that means it...
Eternal-fire SG People just can’t differentiate love and infaution which is sad. They might think they love that someone but in the end they mind find out it’s not love all along and causes unhappy things to happen.
Xephone_xenon SG Okay consider this. Guy meet girl in sec1. Girl does not really look good. Guy dont mind of looks. Decided to make friends with her. Just like normal friends. During sec2 they start to get pretty close. But they are still friends. Sec3 girl and guy went to different class. They didt talk much after that. But when there are troubles. Guy will help girl. And girl even start to have a relationship with another guy. But Guy a dont mind. Even though he is slightly attracted to the girl already. During sec4. Guy starts to think he likes the girl. But he kept quiet all the way. He knows that if he ask for a relatioship there is a 90% chance that girl will say yes. But as he feels that it is a crucial year for girl. And thinks that girl should focus on her O level first as its more impt then BGR. So is this true love? As guy did not want anything is return from girl. Is there any lust involved here?
gigabyte14 SG that's crush. valentine day is coming, try telling her in msn or sumthin, "will u be my valentine dis yr?" works for me.
Xephone_xenon SG Bah. I dont need to have her. I rather she focus on her studies then regret when she does badly for her Os.
Eternal-fire SG Well unless I am the guy, I wouldn't know if it's lust. Because he might have thoughts of screwing her all along.
fallin SG Many people,IMHO, has a overly idealistic concept, even more so reinforced by the ideas that Hollywood hammer them with every year.
