Originally posted by EliteBoy:
Hmmm...
It's funny that it takes you 4 long years to realise that he's such
a egoistic & possessive guy. Or is there any good points about
him that you never mentioned? Hope there is, or else I really pity
you to tahan a guy like that for soooo long...
However, you said he wanna come back... You don't know if it's a
good thing or not rite~? Thus all these confusion come into you...
To me, your case is a bit special...
I agreed with [b]^_^ when he/she says that "If u love him 4 a particular reason,
then it is not true love. U love a person because he/she is who
he/she is" Thus if you like your current BF because he was
there when you're lonely, or he gives you something that your ex
can't, in your case it'll be freedom, then that's not love...
So I guess you gotta choose between love, which definitely takes a
lot of effort, or the kinda of freedom that you want... You might
not like him at all for the rest of your life, but who knows... One
that he can over take your ex...
Next is Xavier's comment, I agreed on the not
being fair for your BF... Since you can't commit then why stay with
him~?
Deathwish's comment's might be true also, maybe
his just trying to protect himself~?
Finally, steph's comment... Is the problem always
there~? Is it because of anything that caused it~? Had the problem
been work out before~?
Last time I wanna ask you, you say he wants you back~! Is he a
changed person~? Or is he a "Same Old Brand New Him"~? If he said
he is changed, does he always kept his word~? If no, then why
bother to go back to him, since you can't take it anymore~?[/b]
Nice of u 2 summarise everything... 
btw, so that u know, i'm a "he" 
