The first move

Ah^ken SG

hi all. Who do you tink should make the first move in courtship?? like in asking him/her to be bf/gf??? Shocked

toothie SG

hmM~! Either both side can make the 1st move since the world is becoming more and more open-minded.. who knows if the next time is ur gf propose to ya?

Parka SG

nice one there.

toothie SG

Wink

Ah^ken SG

haha.. gf propose to u maybe in exceptional cases... Surprised

toothie SG

pls leh.. wad kinda of century u are living in?

Parka SG

21st century. Equal opportunities.

Ah^ken SG

exceptional cases in thet when she is pregnant??? Rolling Eyes

Xiao Long Nu SG

u leh?

star princess SG

i think the man loh. i like the proposal part. and i think it will be so sweet, unforgettable, romantic and loving...

ladies should be more shy and blush more. Embarassed

toothie SG

totally agree!!!

toothie SG

is that all ur mind is thinking about? Get a Life Man!!!!

Why should the ger be the one who always waits for the purpose? Meaning if the guy is too shy.. means the 2 of them cannot be married? hmM~! this is something i totally disagree about.... where the opportunity is there... GRAB it!!! Before it is tooOooOOo late!!! Wink

Peppermint SG

Hi Star Princess

Actually sad to say nowadays guys propose like this one

Guy: Dear I think we should go to apply for flat liao.
Lady: Ok, then when we going to ROM?
Guy: Faster better lah, wait houses all gone.
Lady: Ok

I still thinking of a unique way to propose...so how would you wish your guy to propose to you?

Parka SG

Very Happy

toothie SG

now kinda high-tech already leh...

use SMS or email already!!! blue tooth already so common!!

star princess SG

hehe...

i wish that we are on a beautiful seaside...approaching sunset. and i lie on his shoulders going to fall asleep. He sayang my hair.. and he ask me to look at him, then he gaze deep into my eye as if penetrating my soul and he whispers 'i love you'

then he reaches into his pocket and brings out a SooKee box. And i am so amazed... And he leads me to stand up with him... and we walk to the shore nearer to the water.

And he kneels down and he kiss my hand and he ask me whether i want to be with him forever. I nod and he slides the ring onto my finger and he carries me and he turns me around.

blah blah...all that you know.

Parka SG

Sookee box. Very Happy

Peppermint SG

HI Star Princess

I think walk towards the sea then show the box better. Smile But got danger don't tremble if not ring drop into sea cry.

I ask my female friends, how I know the whether the ring will fit anot they give me all sorts of funny answers. You as a gal think its better for the guy to choose a normal ring to propose 1st then later go and choose a nice one or buy the nice one 1st and use that?

star princess SG

usually when both are together, you will get a simple ring from Perlini or Bits & Pieces (something like that) so you will know her ring size. Remm it.

Then when you are ready to propose you can buy one nice nice one and amaze her.

Peppermint SG

Hi Star Princess

Ahh idea..

I am just afraid that she wouldnt like it. Then very sad one you know.

I bought her a small tiny weeny diamond necklace last year, phew luckily she liked the design.

think your wish will come true? Maybe you can ask him come to this forum hopefully he will stumble on your post and get the idea.