Things that i learn from past relationship

last SG · 2007-02-08T18:13:36+00:00

Instead of creating a new thread, Question: Why, huh, woman still linger for a friendship after a break-up, (Oh i am sorry to break up with you(him/her), but...

allentyb SG

Today i receive a sms from my ex, she is asking how am i doing, blah blah, heck, i don't really care about her anymore so i couldn't be bother to reply at all, woman are so typical, break up already, but still wants to continue be a friend to me, of course i should be grateful to her, still i have my life to lead onto, so recap of what i have learnt from the past so that i wouldn't make the same darn mistake again.

Never argue with a woman
always give her all the free 'time' as much as possible
Be considerate about her feelings
Be a yes man
and many more.......

Ito_^ SG

maybe she is a member of this forum and found out u're a hikikomori, so as a friend, naturally muz kay poh abit. Laughing

noahnoah SG

o ok it is very normal one........

Just treat it that she dun chose you

is her loss lor

There is always someone out there who

really deserve more love from you mah Mr. Green

allentyb SG

Its a rarity to receive her sms, between i am happy, she has her wonderful relationship, i don't want to reply if she were to whine about her current, or ask those lame question, have you found a job yet?( rats, i never report to work today, but thank god, i came up with excuses) how are you feeling?

I feel like asking, what do you want? or the best thing i have come up, Oh, i have totally forgotten about you, how can i help you? But that would be abit harsh. I also don't want her to think that i am still a jerk, but the fact is I AM A MOTHERF U C K E R who don't give a rat ass to any woman, but i have to be a wolf in sheep clothing so blend into this society, be a pretentious gentleman, be a yes man, that would save my trouble of being nag at,

Hogzilla SG

That's very Ah Q leh.

You should do things like, go find someone out there who deserved to loved by you.

Dun just think. Do!

Ito_^ SG

so.. how did u reply?

xiaodingdung SG

i learn abt different personalities, my ex who luv indoor and seldom go out, and another ex who luv to hang out outside, and i never got the chance to visit his room, weird huh Neutral

allentyb SG

the message is as follow, Oh thats nice of you to send me a caring message, but i totally forgotten about you, why? you got problem with your bf, ah? i am doing fine, have a job already, its an accounting position so don’t worry about me, i am doing fine, and i don’t have time to listen to your whining, i wish you all the best in your relationship. Peace out

allentyb SG

Between death note 16, Code Geass 16,(mao is finally dead) Pumpkin Scissors 18, eagerly patiently waiting for kanon 19(7 ep to go, /cry)

Ito_^ SG

you actually sent that!? Shocked u crazy arse.

allentyb SG

i got an hangover, didn’t sleep well, wake up at the wrong side of the bed, eyebrow is twitching, so its her loss to meet my bad day lor

Ito_^ SG

yeah right. it simply showed how upset u were about her. Laughing so much dat anything u said can be considered dubious.

allentyb SG

her reply is so typical, why so hostile, and blah blah, me thinking, duh, wah, i have to be nice to you, ah, have a friendly chit chat with you, ask those typical question, so how are you doing, doing well? oh please, every single time, she ask the same old lame question,bored me out lah,

Bontakun SG

Dun tok to her at dat moment loh. She sms, you KIV. She call you dun reply. She ask why, you not free. Only reply her when you are in a cool and sober state of mind.

Ito_^ SG

aiyo. juz reply "i'm doing quite fine, thanks." can already. no details, keep things general, and short replies, dun ask her questions.

confirm plus chop wun bug u beyond 2 sms.

allentyb SG

i know...... its always the same old greeting message, i think she is really bo liao, between she send a message, like once in blue blue moon. so its rather needless to reply already she should be thankful that i did reply her message.

See See, i don't become a yes man, she overreact, what the heck is woman thinking?

Ito_^ SG

but if u gonna act hostile den she gonna keep sms-ing u the same crap anyways. unless u actually enjoying everything. Laughing

Bontakun SG

Not all woman liddat lah. Maybe you can ask her back like, "Hows da bf?" or "when getting married?" or "ready to become a good wife?" or smth liddat.

allentyb SG

hmmm….. that would rather bo liao of me, maybe my sub-conscious is enjoying all this, life is dull, so i want to make my world a bit more ‘colourful’

allentyb SG

If i know she is getting married, i would be so heart ache and my day will smash into pieces, after all, i used to say this to her, i love her more than i love myself.