For those with BFs who ride

last SG · 2007-02-07T23:28:30+00:00

I dunno the actual reason why he won't bring me. But you all have stated several reasons already. Romantic places? Yes. He's told me they've gone to Labrado...

juz_A_gal SG

Does your BF go to m'sia frequently for food and petrol? Does he go for late night supper with them frequently too?

I can't help it but feel irritated when he does... He doesn't bring me along. For m'sia, I know it's cos he goes fast and he doesn't feel safe with me behind him.

For singapore, it's probably cos I have to work the next day so he doesn't get me along.

I tell him that he'd better not have any gal on his bike. Ever.

It's not that i dun trust him... but... sometimes when he goes on these trips, i feel jealous. Maybe he's starting to spend more time with the biker frenz than me that's why? i don't know...

Tizi Melissa Othman SG

check his hp

crofty SG

send a private eye to check on him? Shocked

mhcampboy SG

Ya lor. Check his handphone, wallet or bag if u dun trust him. Very Happy

Anyway, its common for bikers and car enthusiast to meet up friends and go jb together especially at night.

So dun worry so much la.

FireIce SG

i think i can oni say…...get used to it…..........

Deportivo SG

you do know that there are ALOT of night clubs in JB right?

instead of him riding, someone may be riding him. if you get the drift.

juz_A_gal SG

hmm.. but it's not that i think he actually cheats on me. it's more like.... he spends more time with his bike than with me.. so i guess... i'm jealous that way.

it's not that i'm not willing to go for his little trips. he never even bothered to ask. when i offer to go, he juz ignores the question altogether.

is it that he just needs his space? or do bikers juz dun like people who dun ride to tag along?

mhcampboy SG

Yes he needs his space. If you know him well enough.. then im sure you would understand...

its a man thing anyway... even i dun get it.. Laughing

juz_A_gal SG

as far as i know, he and the others always go by 2nd link. over there, not only can they speed and test how fast they can go, it's safer since all the crime seems to happen in JB (causeway).
so.. nightclubs? nah. i think they really go for the food and petrol. esp since got a few gals with them too.

laurence82 SG

coz..you are a gal?

Shocked

jianfish9 SG

Maybe he mindful of your safety ma. Go there still have to look after you might not be so fun. Jb not say very safe also.

I go there about once a month with friends but nobody other than my parents seem to mind.

popikachu SG

it is very very common for riders to go malaysia to pump petrol...
i heard from a number of the that it is real cheap and worth the time...
but id dunno cus i dont have a bike... i am still underage...
and it is also very normal for riders to go out together with their friend...
i know alot of rider from mac and they are the same... all nv bring along their gf one even they no working... only once in a very long time they bring...

yup... thats normal...

mhcampboy SG

Rolling Eyes

Pitot SG

think too much

juz_A_gal SG

I guess that's too bad for me then. It's not once a month. He can sometimes go twice a week, on top of other supper outings.

Anyway, thanks to all who responded. I just needed to hear from others... some sort of reassurance....

Ito_^ SG

so dat means u're neither male or female? Laughing

Y_Shun SG

malaysia dangerous...i think he dun let u tag along because malaysia is not safe enough...

somemore malaysia crimes rates is like never lowering?

fallen_souL SG

2nd link is really only food, petrol and nothing else. as for riding the bike as fast as it can go... coz we living in singapore, and i assume he is riding a big bike, therefore, only 2nd link can sastify their speed adrenline...

and its very normal for bikers to meet up and talk about bikes, bikes and bikes...

coz i am one of those... crazy over bikes. Wink

Xephone_xenon SG

So you want him to bring you along.
Both of you get involve in a car accident and die?
He prolly cares about you so he not bringing you along la.

And if he brings you along. Being with his friend they prolly just talk about bikes bikes bikes and bikes.
And you be standing at there like a dummy. Asking him to go back to sg earlier.
Guys dont like to be disturb by their gf while they are with their friends.

Sometimes you got to put up with things, have hope in urself and trust in your bf.

sunny6110 SG

Ask the rider....

go msia dun bring u I can understand....

if supper outing u oso can;t tag along means....... Mr. Green