Ok Rain_Tree
This is for you. 
Hope I still can recall most of it.
First you must understand that man can never endure too much
itimacy. He has to get in touch with his masculine self before he
feels smothered by love. But he also cannot do without it.
Rubber Band Effect
Think of the man's affection for you as a rubber band. The more he
gives you love, the more it stretches. Until a time whereby it
*snaps* much like what will happen to a real rubber band if you
stretch it long enough.
The time whereby it's at is breaking point is also when you feel
that suddenly you feel neglected. (The affection level for you has
reached its peak, He can give you no more) so you will start to ask
him to do funny things like *send me home*, say things like *do you
still love?*. Of course you know that he still loves you, but you
need the assurance.
However, at this point in time, the man is a breaking point, the
more you try to pull him back, the further he will try to run.
Until he breaks, and that may be because why a couple quarrels
about such stuffs.
If you stretch a rubber band tight, and let it go, it will bounce
back violently. Same like a man, let him go, let him off for a
while, when he is stretched to his limit, he will eventually bounce
back, and thats when you will get all the love and affection you
need.
Its natural, and I always tell my galfriends that. Guys will
understand it, when they need to go out with friends, do some male
bonding, but may be witheld by their partners.
Hope it helps. I will explain more on the caveman thing later
