'nothing'

last SG · 2002-11-13T12:47:03+00:00

nothing = anyting = someting = tinking= big ting.......

xavier1979 SG

Some girls abuse the word 'nothing' esp in a disagreement when the girl simply refuses to tell the truth abt how she is feeling now. And they expect guys to read their minds?

Si|verGer SG

r u a ger or boi? u reli understand gers leh *impressive* Mr. Green

Si|verGer SG

i did read abt it & it did reli make mi open & widen my knowledage abt guys & gers but although it did it still need to put it into action & practice often. . . Wink

Si|verGer SG

amyb mths? Rolling Eyes

Si|verGer SG

it applies to both genders. . . Mr. Green

toothie SG

u can always choose to ignore it

xavier1979 SG

And certainly those girls can be magnanimous enough to forgive the guys for their 'ignorance'? Mr. Green

CroW SG

totali agree...
guys can chose to ignore...but u tink gers can b magnanimous enough2 4giv thm4their ignorance...
how i wish gers can... then alot of quarrels can avoid liao...
the 'nothing' say by gers s reali misleading...
i totali agree...speciali those shy-by-nature ger....
people pls, if u tink u need 2b excuse as u need 2tink of anythg or just dun wan2answer the question...how come u cant jus say the truth...
saying nothing wil cause alot of uncessary argument n disagreement...
some pple may say, its part n parcel of r/s, but come2tink of it, izit worth it, jus bcuz of the continous use of 'nothing' word, causes a r/s to fall... personali, i dun tink its worth it...;p

huatuo SG

nothing = (she)colour = emptyness(kong)

huatuo SG

nothing = (she Cool )colour = emptyness(kong)

zacken99 SG

bravo bravo appluse please........ Cool

zacken99 SG

very true...especially those man wif few words... Cool

zacken99 SG

sigh..............NOTHING is never a thing ,its thingS.......... Cool

FoRsAkEn SG

definately will lor....
if my bf tell mi "nothing" but he really sound weird...then i will think whether i hv done or said anything wrongly anot

If a gal said "nothing"....then u better dun ask further to irritate her.
Leave alone 1st....aft a while then ask her again lor.
sometimes she might want to tell u "something" but is not prepare yet...... Mr. Green

Peppermint SG

Yup often that IS the hardest part. Its like you know this is going to happen but YET you still continue to do things that might hurt yourself and your partner.

Up till now I still find it hard to practise what I preach. I must make a conscientious effort to do that.

rain_tree SG

well... i agree i start to reach the "peak"... i believe tat is becuz of my feeling of being helpless.... i no longer noe wat to do..... i tried everything.... i ignore him den he say i dun care anymore... i used to keep asking how he was... but i noe how irritating it is when one keep buzzing around ur ears asking u wat is the problem with u... i noe guys turn to guys to solve their problems... so i encourage him to go to his friends and tok to them abt his problems... i dun mind him going out while i sit at hm and rot... i dun wan him to worry abt me being outside and add to his problems.... but he cannot tok to his friends abt his problems also... he dun like to tok abt his problems i guess.... with tat thinking in mind i use other methods like distract him from his problems... even if he giving black face or throwing tanturm... i will pretend nothing happens... juz be my happy usual cheery self... hopefully it will influence him to be cheerful also... but tat doesnt help alot also... its not easy to smile when it hurts inside... the only thing tat makes me very angry is when he ignores me... when i tok to him and he juz keep walking... even a yes no ans is alrite for me... but ignoring me completely will make me really hot... especially when sometimes the problem lies with his friendship problems and he give me the attitude.... i mean... i am not the one who make him so angry... why is he punishing me like tat.... i noe guys are not like gals... we can be very angry at the person who caused our unhappiness and next min smile sweetly at the rest of our friends... i try to be understand... sometimes i really dunno wats going on Confused

rain_tree SG

hahaha...... Laughing

rain_tree SG

ignoring him is worst.... he crave attention.... i totally haf no idea wat is the cause of it.... juz like u guys haf no idea why gals say nothing... he says i am not sensitive enuff to be a gal.... well... Rolling Eyes .... to me is like erm.... if i am too sensitive den i am sulky and unreasonable and spoilt.... if i am not too sensitive den i am not suitable to me a gal.... Question Shocked Shocked .... i already dunno wat else to do.... i run after him to see wats his problem... he dun tell me..... he ignore me.... i dun run after him liao give him time to think abt it and come tell me..... he say i dun care abt him anymore.... i am not as sweet already.... i juz sit quietly and pei him when he is sad... he say i am one gal who dunno how to make bf happy..... i explain to him why i do things the way i do them so tat he wun misunderstand and i believe with understanding of ones action he will be more tolerant.... but he juz shut his ears and refuse to listen... sometimes he will be unhappy out of the blue.... i am sooooooo clueless... den start thinking back wat haf i done wrong.... wat i said...... most of the time i find nothing... all i can do is wait for him to be alrite... i dun mind he scold me for no reason... at least he bother to scold and at least i get a very very slight clue wat he is unhappy abt... but he juz kept quiet and unhappy... *sigh* Rolling Eyes
but say the truth.... he is one great guy... Wink Wink Wink
ur advices are very helpful.... thx alot alot

rain_tree SG

i believe alot of gals are lar..... lolz
gals are more emotional by nature..... i am more tom boy tats why i am more rational... u wun wan all gals to think like guys rite..... might as well date them... hehehehe
i think saying nothing is when they are thinking.... of wat is making them upset..... cannot multi task mah... thinking tat time how to tell u leh... let them think finish liao den tell u loh.... but make sure u watch her expression lar.... if tat nothing comes with sacartism den u watch out loh..... means trouble is coming if u dun hurry up and coax her Laughing

zacken99 SG

to miaintain a relationship is really not easy... gt to give but still gt to watch out when to give...
give too less cannot give too much being take for granted.
its really nt easy to sart,maintain a relationship.
it always take 2 to clap.....but no 2 person can really think alike....there bound to hv some differences.......
hope all of will able to get the least differences partner n able to appreciate him/her..... Cool

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