Hi, sometimes when u're down and feel like wanting some friends
by your side to listen to you, it doesn't help. It still doesn't
solve the problem. They simple just like your company, listen to
your problems and later it's still dependent on yourself to solve
the problem. For me i give the problem a long thought[ sometimes
just stare blankly at the tv screen], think about want went wrong,
whose fault doesn't matter. What matters most is to learnt from it
N come back from the setback[ easier said then done for me]. Get a
very nice notebook[ so as it motivates you to write] jot down what
u wanna say within, your thoughts. You'll find that u'll feel much
better.
When u know that u're emotionally weak, never listen to those slow,
romantic love songs, it's gonna kill you! No wonder u cried. Try
playing trance/techno, it makes u feel happy N u're telling yrself
that u'r happy.
The next thing i gonna mention is tougher. Have some spare pocket
money to spent. I can tell you that even if the money goes down the
drain, u'll feel nothing bout it. But when it comes to getting your
allowance, u'll be wondering or blameing that u have not enough
$$.
Hasten to add, being alone isn't something bad. Studies have shown
that adolescent that spent time alone grown up to be independent
learners and are thinkers. They decide and make decisions for
themselves. They learn how to survive on their own without their
parents. They are responisible to themselves. It makes them
stronger. If you think this way, it makes you challenge yourself be
positive.
Last but not least, dont rush into any relationship. It will come
when u least expected it. For myself, i've already put a fullstop
to it. I've found my own identity, i've found my confidence, but
i've lost the person i loved most.
