[quote]Originally posted by Spear:
Me also. But what gigi say also quite valid. Nowdays really hard to
be a 'cool' guy...Must be good son, good staff,good boyfriend, good
hubby, good father, etc etc... So much pressure surely crack one...

[/quote
most of the time,i m a listener among my guy frds.they use to be
strong...but as time goes by...
girl can distract themselve by shopping,eating or even hook on to
sggirls when they are sad.but guy will enage themselve into heavy
smoking and drinking.
when a girl wept,you can say sweet things to console her,but when a
guy wept...you got to let them face the fact because you cannot
cheat them.