It is due to people like you who cannot understand simple logic
that I prefer to use a forum. What is the whole picture at hand?
The whole picture means meeting up = credibility?
"Yes, more or less there. Not only the credibility comes with the
original meeting of us before, but also that as a result of knowing
me in person, its easier to be more receptive to my comments online
or face to face as well."
Knowing you in person? How well does she know you, has she lived
with you? Does she know all your pasts? Have you hidden anything
from her? Do you depend on the points raised or whether you like
the person?