I'm just back from a stay in Singapore, and it always interests
me how SGns navel-gaze over their manners.
I'd like to tell you that I've been visiting Singapore for 25 odd
years and I find it a fine country. I find the people by and large
charming.
But I also want to report something of a problem. When I am out
with my 'other half' (she's Singaporean), the way people are polite
to me, and simply ignore her, is embarassing.
Let me be clear, my partner is in a serious job abroad on behalf of
the government, and is an immaculately turned out professional. In
Singapore; well to you, I'm just an ang mo on holiday.
We were in Tanglin Mall last weekend asking about the price of some
reflexology. The women could not even look at my girlfriend as she
told her that she 'simply didn't have any appointments left that
day'.
I think Singaporeans are lovely. Slightly reserved like the Engligh
(me!). But a smile.... is all it takes.
Just, I wish that some SGns would not behave like my girflriend can
simply be ignored, while at the same time laying the smiles and
'yes sirs' on me.
