Trainin up :)

kenn3th SG

if let’s say i m an emo person, so how do i train up on my mental, so as to be mentally stronger.

MyPillowTalks SG

find ways to stop getting angry when u lose a quarrel, other ways other then the count 1-10.....which is useless i tink Laughing

kenn3th SG

but if u are so emotional that u cry when u get scolded?

Short Ninja SG

Your sense of guilt is making you cry.To be mentally strong you have to get hurt more often instead of running away from the problem…....hey, wait a minute!! why am I giving advice to my son????

R3SsH|n SG

be proud.prideful.

snop_coolz SG

school for scoundle..

MyPillowTalks SG

but not arrogant

kenn3th SG

but let's say if someone needs to be less emo, eg: crying,

so how do i get hurt more often? till i am numb from everything?

Bontakun SG

Not like that lah... that is no diff from drowning in the drunkardness of being numb or void of such emotions.

There is no foolproof way to "train up" your emotional level. Its the experiences you have and your encounters in the future that help you grow and mature more.

kenn3th SG

but in normal day activities, if for eg control my urge to, eh buy something or eat fastfood does it "strengthened" me?

popikachu SG

slap yourself real hard,

then tell yourself,
wtf am i doing?

kenn3th SG

[quote]Originally posted by popikachu:
slap yourself real hard,

then tell yourself,
wtf am i doing?[/quote

Laughing why are u a p-member? can u slap urself hard and tell me why?

Bontakun SG

In a "sense" yes. You exercise self-control to refuse to do something you desire. Then you will reflect on why you do it. Is it "right" or "wrong"? How you justify your decision to do so and otherwise. THe next time can you do it again or will you do the other way?

All these and more, you learn more, you grow, you understand more and somehow you mature more.

kenn3th SG

icicx thx Wink