Originally posted by iPeace:
I seemed like I can't like anyone now...
My heart seem numb, stale, unable to get moved by other guys.
I guess it's partly becuz of my past r'ship (which hurt rather
alot).
But I have moved on! I don't get down, sad or depress whenever I
think about my ex-bf. But I just can't bring myself to like someone
else...
I seem to forget how liking someone else is like now... or even how
to start liking one.
Hmm, then how about starting to like and love yourself
first?
Without filling yourself up with this love, you will find it hard
to accept another person.
How to love yourself? Go and do things which you enjoy doing. Give
yourself quality time all by yourself. Rediscover your strenghs and
virtues. Laugh.
Give yourself the best gift: Time.
There is no hurry to like anybody now, is there?
When the student is ready, the teacher appears.
When you are ready to love again, he will appear. Meantime, get
yourself ready by loving yourself.
Hugs
Originally posted by iPeace:
If a girl first met this guy, but doesn't have any initial
attraction towards him, does it mean this girl would not like this
guy even after some time later?
How do u come about liking someone?
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When attraction is there, you'll like this person!
No initial attraction doesn't mean there won't be in time to come.
For certain qualities need time and sometimes events to happen
before it can be discovered 
