How to get close to a girl

coldzero SG

Recently there’s this girl in my orientation group whom I find quite nice. I manage to get her number. How do I get close to her so as not to scare her or something? I have not spoken to her before. =/

pbeyondp SG

ur hopeless

coldzero SG

I dont need your comments about me.

Cystaire SG

You can get a girl's number without speaking to her?

We should be asking you for advice. Mr. Green

used SG

can ask frm one of her friends rite!

coldzero SG

Ask from people from my OG lo! -____-"

Anyone can tell me any nice way for the approach?

popikachu SG

lol sign language???

haha... to get close to her... first of first, if can sit beside her...

second, if you shy dun call her... sms her...
if you not shy, call her and jus say," hi there, i am bored... would you like to talk with me?" if can do this asap if not other guys snatch away from you liao...

if you 2 get abit closer liao, get close to her friend too... good friend only cus a girl have alot alot of friend de...

the next step is going out together... you must have the initiative to ask... dont go out alone with her but in group. if better call lesser guys to go out in that gruop... during the outing, try to walk closer with her and have converation...

you might not know, you 2 may be walking alone behind and other in front...
after you get real close... chio her before someone else chio her!!!

remember one thing, must have initiative and must be faster then other guys... and if can get her very very good de friend as gan mei or gan jie...

yup that all...

coldzero SG

Nice one! Thanks! But I dont know how to start the talk and stuff leh.. We never really talk before Confused

Xiao Bao Ge SG

Stealth like a ninja.... Wink

butterNsugar SG

Must have gotten her no. through your frens.

Ask your fren if she consented to allow her no. to be given to you. If she allows your fren to giv you her no., it shows that she is interested in you and things will be a lot more easier. Only then we start to discuss.

But if your fren had given u her no. without her consent, then.......

By getting her no. without even talking to her b4 is already something scary to her.

Unless she is desperate, naive, innocent and willing to talk to strangers, IT WILL NOT WORK. Gals are very wary of strangers.

coldzero SG

Okay. If she have given her consent already, how do I start the whole talking thing?

FightinForLove SG

If shes given her consent.. then its easy.. talk about anything she'd be interested..

Edit: Try not to discuss about weather... its really a conversation stopper..

coldzero SG

Err.. Question

Mysteria SG

Just say:

Hello, i am XXX, and i would like to be friend with you. Would you mind me contacting you via your number? I got your number from my friend's friend. Laughing

I have done this before xD Embarassed

Diehard_89 SG

advise you not to get too close with her

I got a 1st 3 month crush with a girl and in the end for some reasons which up till now I still don't get it, we got further and further apart

soon the novelty fades

and I miss her terribly when we are not in 1st 3 months liao

Crying or Very sad

coldzero SG

What's these reasons? =D

FightinForLove SG

lol.. i had a crush on my classmate when i entered poly.. it only ended when she got together with my buddy..

coldzero SG

Err.. Might this scare her off?

popikachu SG

first step:

jus say hi the first thing she take up the phone... or if she dont know you, you can ask her "do you know who i am?" let her guess awhile... then say who you are...

you can strike up a conversation by asking a question... like,:
" erm you know how to do the math quetion teacher give us as homework?"
but is can dont used math as topic... cus math is almost impossbile to explain on the phone...

after she answer you question, you ask can ask " you done all already ahh?"

most likely she will say yes de...

then jus say "ohhh" reggarding her answer...

there is lot of other question to ask first... but the first question should be something sound like you really need it like tml timetable, homework, deadline for the assignment...
after that can ask other question liao... if can ask thing about sch de... how do you feel about the teacher...

after that you can also bluff her about that "next time i got problem find you better cus i call otther people they always no answer the phone..."

second step:

most likely you will be asking the question and the girl will answer it... unless a real conversation is happening where they are seldom question and answer... this is the second part... which is chatting... getting into second step from first step is abit hard...

i haven think out what should you say or do to get into second part...

notes: if can dont used sms... if can call her... i have read book on mind reading and body language, eye contact and found out somthing...

a boy is usally more shy to talk to a girl... boys prefer sms...

a girl dont really like sms... they like talking on phone more... if face to face better...

normally if talk, girl will get shy but they prefer to talk then to sms... so most probly you will be askig her question and she answer... ( dont let her find you irritating)

dont get nervous when talking to her... try to think what you wanna talk before calling/talking to her...

yup that all...

coldzero SG

Haha.. But most likely I'm staying at my current JC. Not sure about her though.. =/