love at first sight = lust ...not love

last SG · 2007-01-05T22:20:25+00:00

the girl i dance with will know me on monday...gonna ask for her name

Classyfied SG

recently i sortta fell in love with a girl at first sight...but i coudnt really tell if its love or lust..but i believe la...its more to the lust side..i admit ...ok...

so this sets me thinking wheather love at first sight among ppl ..........
izit really love or juz for sex?wad do u guys think?

Agenda SG

Think hard about her, Imagine you and her in a beach setting.. She is about to make out with you..

Did you get a hard-on? If yes means lust, No means you have erectile dysfuntion Laughing

Depends la, Sometimes love at first sight is because of this certain charm the person has

digicharat SG

this one need to think one meh?
there is no such thing as love at first sight.
only lust at first sight.

please teach me how the hell are you going to love a complete stranger at first sight? Rolling Eyes

rainee SG

do u even know her yet?

u dun even know her name rite? Laughing

aku1b0d0 SG

depends. i've through this thing before, and that feeling only last for a few weeks Laughing

freakass SG

Are you talking about the girl who danced with you during the school orientation?

I had a similar experience as yours too... I also danced with a girl during the orientation in my JC years ago... Then I had a crush on her... kept on looking out for her in school... then as weeks go by, I totally forgot about her already...So it simply means that if there's no interaction at all, there can be no love... only lust

toyota-corolla SG

ineresting. Mr. Green

but is interesting if both party is interested in each other. Laughing

CoolMyth SG

Can love exist without lust? Personally, I dun believe so.

You shall have asked the gal for her name, msn when got the chance. If no more chance, then it's time to switch target. Laughing

snop_coolz SG

lol..but in sg its not really common for guys to just ask for msn..or mayb i m being left out…

CoolMyth SG

I thought now ask msn is the fad? Otherwise ask what? Laughing

I'm not too aware of recent fads also.

freakass SG

Yah I feel the same as you... Love cannot exist without lust.... but Lust can definitely exist without love...

Sheepophile SG

yes.

freakass SG

Seriously, I think you stand a better chance if you have asked for a girl's msn or email... cos it's not as threatening and intruding as asking for her handphone number... For msn and email, she can easily block you... but for handphone number, she cant stop u frm calling and it will be so damn irritating...

freakass SG

You just said that love can exist without lust? This is so funny... so if you love your partner so much that it's 100% love and no lust, then you are not able to have sex with him/her.... Lust is exactly the thing that turns you on....

aku1b0d0 SG

agreed. at least some lust lah. kissing also involves lust mah.

Sheepophile SG

im capable of that and that feeling was reciprocated too. everheard of kinship?

Classyfied SG

thats the thing that keep me depressed these 2 days cuz i forgot to ask for her name!!! too mesmerized by her liao at that time ...then everything also forget...i now want to locate her also cannot find liao...wtf...only know she same orientation house as me..wtf Crying or Very sad

BenBenDeZhu SG

come i help you find her, $50 per hr Very Happy

jaydunkfull SG

if you like her because she is chio,then that is lust. if you like her at first sight and she is not chio and you know it,then it is definitely more than lust.

Classyfied SG

ya...i know its lust liao...but then how to stop myself from thinking her?