Kena retained before, can share with you that when you get
retained, you will live like never before. You cherish things more
then ever, you value time, you work much harder to make amends, at
the end of the day, you emerge a different person. Sometimes, its a
blessing in disguise actually. I came out of it, even more
successful then some of my friends whom were doing well. So you
gotta look at how you want to see it.
You can cry about it, and blame the world, or you can use it as an
opportunity to show the world that it has been stupid for them not
to realize your boundless potentials.