aeskay SG hey.. i've been on sgforums for quite some time now, but most of time i just read what others have to share. i am writing now to share an issue that is bothering me today afternoon i had a really unpleasant incident at the neighbourhood basketball court. i was confronted by a younger guy, and not forgetting his 'gang' of friends. i shall cut the long story short (haha). luckily it was only a verbal dispute so far. in the end i just walked away, although i couldn't help but glared at him a few times but i guess i won't be going down to play basketball for some time now. i figure the best way is not to retaliate but rather, to walk away? after all there is really not much of a point in arguing with them, since they can't see reason. what really troubles me is that nowadays there is this trend of these teenager 'pai-kia wannabes'. everyone should have seen them sometimes. they are the kids who gather around in shopping centres, void decks, and neighbourhood basketball courts (!!) i guess people who have had encounters with them would understand. how about you other forumnites? care to share your experiences, good or bad? (sorry if the post is a little too lengthy)
playboy_1985 SG think u must have the look that they thot can bully easily. btw how old r you? i still remember the last time i confronted one sec sch pai kia wanna-be.. haha hum ji bola argue lose liao walk away
danls79 SG i dont think they want to mess with me .cause i think i will break a few of their arms or legs .
digicharat SG you must have done something to piss them off. did you win them in basketball infront of their girls?
aeskay SG (playboy_1985) haha still ok ba? i actually don't look very friendly.. but those ppl alwys play at that basketball court nowadays (me too) so they roughly know i not those 'gangster' ppl. i'm 17, older than them (but also no use ) wah seh, u can argue till he nothing to say n walk off? haha good for u i guess the less ppl they have on their side, the less 'courage' they have?[/quote]
hatemeifuwantto SG 1)uneducated ppl liddat de la..u shld pity them not be angry to them.. 2)i also feel that pai kia is irrtating lor...then they see chio bu then they will shout eh chio bu come here. 3)then when they alone that time..hum ji like d0g liddat 4)if u act like u are scared of em..they will walk all over u..if u act fierce they might reconsider.if they say they want hit u.u just scare them by saying i will report police if u hit..then if they hit first..then u hit n run lo..go nearest police station report.. PS:mine quite long also
aeskay SG erm what i did.. this will sound very childish that guy's lil bro ask to borrow my basketball so i kind-heartedly lent it to him. then he played monkey with his friends with it here's the gross part: this fat ass step and kick it around with his bare feet. then they left after that, leaving the ball in a puddle of mud. what wouuld u do? i shouted at them (can't remember what) once. then today that guy comes to me, 'ting shuo ni zuo tian ma wo de di di....'' blah. ('heard that u scold my brother yesterday'). what an idiot. thats my story. moral of story: don't lend anything to kids with fat friends or wannabe brothers
TYING SG aiyo, before you want to lent things to others ar, must always remember the golden rule, nv lent to kids who is in a gub grp. Sure take advantage of you.
aeskay SG digicharat: haha! i wish! (but no) i don't think any of them have girlfriends. girls today very choosy one, hopefully wun end up with such guys. hatemeifuwantto: thanks man, haha, just what i have thought of during dinner. was quite disturbed ah, 'bullied' at my own neighborhood court not bad la. haha i add one to ur list: 5) join the police corp when serve ns next time!
pokkagreentea SG haha..like that only. what a loser (not you). im glad you didnt retaliate when the gang confronted you. Fist fight won't solve any probs. Don't waste your time on them. but hey, you shouldn't be discouraged to use the basketball after that incident. It's a public place for all, mind you.
aeskay SG SGpork: ya - damn! at least that guy hasn't figured this out yet. haha. last time it was also this fellow who stirred up some 'tai chi' there. i feel it's quite a pity la, now that the older guys have gone on to ns, these kids think they're some big-shots or something. haha thanks. i guess i'll play there sometimes, but avoid such ppl? let them be king of their own hill
rpgragnarok SG my friends and i finished playing soccor then kana chased by a group of gangsters after refusing to join their gang.. then ran to jurong point , they stopped their chase and just caught one of my friend who ran slower.. but then decided to let him off as we ran too far to be stopped..haha..feel really sorry for my friend cause we didnt even realised he's gone haha..btw , thats 3years ago. we did call the cops/teachers after we realised one of them is from the same school as us.. still got other stories but i dun wish to waste time posting all
Y_Shun SG i think if have some more details like what they said that they bo song with u etc… will be good.
