The bottom line to learn from this is that you must stand up for
yourself so you won't regret after the incident, do what you think
is right so you don't feel after the whole thing wow, i was not
wrong but still kenna scolding and then went off the bus or train
for what, really should have......
That's why you have the feeling of 'letting her get away with it'
because you are right, she got away with scolding u for no reason
and shes a stranger who not even related to you. She should be
minding her own business. Just talk back what you feel next time if
you kenna this kind of psycho again. Even it create a commotion and
other people stare but who cares? It's not their business because
they are not involved in the situation. They are not going to help
also.
I think another poster sums it up nicely when he or she mentoned
that if people already come looking for trouble, no point caring
about creating a commotion, just say what exactely u want, in my
case, vuglar also nvm, cause strangers should not harass you in
public for no reason. And it's not worth it to whack them, so just
scold them back and let them know their thinking got problem.
At least next time they want try pull this kind of stupid stunt,
they will remember last time they kenna scolding for opening their
mouth to needlessly lecture people. That's the most important
thing.