Hmm... Reminds me of an incident I experienced some time
ago.
Once I was waiting for a friend of mine at an MRT station to pass
him something. A girl came up to me to buy several donation tickets
worth a total of $10 for some charity which I had never heard
of.
I told her politely that I was a still studying, and that I didn't
have $10 to spare, though I could spare $2 for a single ticket. She
retorted sarcastically, 'Eh hello... why are you so selfish? You
have clothes to wear, food to eat... you can't even spare $10 for
charity....'
At this juncture I got so pissed off that I blasted at her: 'Eh
hello... what is your blardy problem?!?!?! I have $25,000 in
loans... you want to pay all that for me?!?!?! I have to work
part-time to pay off my basic needs.... you want to buy lunch for
me?!?! Can you be freakin' glad that I'm at least buying a freakin'
donation ticket from you?!?!?!'
She was so scared that she was shaking very badly when she took my
$2 and gave me a donation ticket. I gave her the hardest glare I
could muster and walked away from her.
Part of me felt sorry for that girl... but hell, you want to urge
others to be charitable, the least you can do is to not insult
them.