Disagree. You dont end up hating them - you just end up knowing
them better.
I mean if my friend came out of the toilet, and I see her aunty
stuff there, i would remedy it STRAIGHT AWAY by screaming at her
'walao ehhhh, cannot make it leh you..." and she would get to know
me better too.. heheh
But having said that, disgusting things like this (i have high
tolerance level of dirt and etc) rarely makes me pissed off. Mess
irritates me even though I am not a very neat person - but when u
stay in a tent with 5 other people, you jolly well keep your
underwear and dirty socks on YOUR side.
It's stuff like.. puntuality ->
KNOWING you have to wake up early to catch a train and still waking
up late and putting on make up. OR..
KNOWING the entire plane is waiting for you cos you were late, but
still insist must stop to buy drink (piangz, on the plane got free
one what?)
or complete selfishness ->
KNOWING people really dont have the budget to eat at fancy
restaurant but sullk and throw tantrum cos you want to.
Completely unapologetic for spending HOURS at shopping when there
are other things your travel mates want to do too.
Having long drawn out quarrel with boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse
while on trip with other friends is a big nono. You can't avoid
arguments but.. hey, be adult, settle it elsewhere.