simple solution, ditch the galfriend, get a better one in Uni,
where they are younger, more in tune with what you are going thru,
and then you can start on equal footing.
As for the old galfriend, let her rot. Let them be so full of
themselves that their only hope will be to own a service apartment,
hope for some donor sperms, or hug their dogs to sleep each
night.