This will be a never-ending argument. Each side will say things
that make them seem like the victim.
However for your post:
1)Pregnancy: I do agree with your post. You don't compare with NS.
Totally irrelavant.
2)Children: This is a matter of the husband and wife working
together as a team and compromising who should do what at home,
making it 50-50 as much as possible. Guys, when you look for a
wife, look for someone who is not stubborn and always has her way.
Look for a team player, not a solo player. Girls, let the man take
the lead. Someone has to take the lead in the direction of the
family.
3)Culture issue- I do support the traditional issues. However, this
is more of a personal preference pertaining to individuals. As I
have said, we are all looking for team players in a married
life.
4)Credit card and cars- Guys should know how to plan their finances
properly short term and long term wise. Women should help as well.
Do what's good for the family and not for self-interests. Don't
marry a guy for his wallet. When the inevitable divorce ever
happens, the Women's Charter is not fair towards the guy.
5)Natural Female Instinct- I salute you for telling the truth.
However, do marry someone you really love.
6)Golddiggers- I have to tell you this. There are more female
gold-diggers than male versions, simply because it is expected from
the male to provide for the female from the day humans evolved.
Even till this modern age, the female gold-diggers still expect the
man to provide for them. This is really unrealistic thinking, when
the GST is going to be 7%? That is only when the man is rich or at
least decently rich. It is all a team effort. If the female is
doing what is good for herself not what is good for the family,
Guys, you just dump her. Sad to say, you cannot do it during
marriage.
It is because of this responsibility there are a certain percentage
of females who will exploit this. This group of female gold-diggers
do not really love the men and worse, marry them because they can
provide a comfortable tai-tai lyfestyle. If the marriage ever
crumbles, half the man's assets will be split to the female,
according to the Women's Charter?
It is precisely these female gold-diggers that irritate so many
men, causing a bad name to the females. Not all women are bad of
course.
doko
