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last SG · 2006-10-31T10:41:46+00:00

even though i agree with everything said here.as in agreeing that these rules should be applied…i still think that guys should give in to girls.and the part...

Bontakun SG

Who are "they"? Women?

Sharingan_ichigo SG

yup..they refers to women...

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Bontakun SG

Not all women are what you described. Afterall, how well do we understand women? We can't understand them 100% and neither can they understand us 100%. There are exceptions though...

It takes time and communication to know one another better and understand what we and they are like.

Sharingan_ichigo SG

yup..there are exceptions...haiz...ya.. the major communication problem between man and women...we can't understand them 100% and neither do they understand us 100%..haiz..sian sian sian... Neutral

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mrsmall SG

1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of
>it that way.
>
>1. Crying is blackmail.
>
>1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints
>do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work!
>Just say it!
>
>1. We don't remember dates. Mark birthdays and anniversaries on
>the calendar. Remind us frequently beforehand.

exactly X3

Bontakun SG

There is no need to understand one another 100%, else the fun is gone right? We just need to understand enough of one another to make a move or decide certain issues.

And we have no sharingan to do that either. Laughing

Sharingan_ichigo SG

agreed..but i am a person who likes peace..hates to quarrel...y can't they understand and give in sometimes...i tot i was supposed to be give and take...haiz...y must we always give in even if its not our fault...they wanted men and women to be equal in the society now...then..y izzit they can't be equal when it comes to apologising for one's mistake...haiz..complicated..

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popololopolo SG

aahahahahhah very funny! Very Happy

Bontakun SG

Not enough understanding. Thats all I can say. Maybe you 2 dated before you 2 had a chance to get to know each other better before deciding to date? It occurs for many couples and both side are have responsibilities towards the relationship between themselves. It takes 2 to make it work, not 1 loh.

If you found it strange why only 1 side is contributing and nth from the other side, you can more or less know this relationship is going nowhere.

Next time when anyone meets a person he/she likes or feel attracted to, STOP!!!

Make friends 1st, then get to know that person better. Know much about that person, behaviour, likes and dislikes, patterns, characteristics and traits. THEN decide should the relationship go further than just friendship level to "better friendship" or deeper relationship.

Sharingan_ichigo SG

haha...thanks for the consolation and advice...haiz..its not that only 1 of us is contributing...both are contributing..hmm...hmm...haiz...

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Bontakun SG

Dun worry, patience and forgiveness. Have a good talk with her. Remember, patience and forgiveness. Wink

Sharingan_ichigo SG

haha...i have done that..but my patience has limits...i have already "di sheng xia qi" le...but she dun seem to give way...haiz..nvm la...The boat will naturally be straight once it reaches the bridge...thanks alot anyway...
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Bontakun SG

Slowly bah, she will soon realise all these.

Phoebie SG

you're welcome Very Happy

actually I treat my Husband this way umpteen times Embarassed Laughing
maybe some girls are more prone and sensitve to emotional attributes. For example a guy may see a plate of fried rice as fried rice, the girl may see the plate rice in different angles

Phoebie SG

hi just one cents of my humble advice Laughing which is, practise the highest level of preservances and patiences. Some girls need more coaxing. Give in to your woman Very Happy and coaxing her gently and sweetly Smile by doing so after a while gaining back her senses (after being hot headed), she'll be alright and nice to you once again. Sometimes a woman's temper fuse may short circuit and blow up.

I strongly believe you have a very good temper Smile From a personal point of view, a guy with nasty and bad temper irk me. But I believe many guys have a huge sense of ego and self esteem, and the last thing a woman should do is, screaming at her boyfriend or husband in front of other people.

if you're not going to give in to her, things may turn out nasty and the outcome may be like egg clashing with egg.

supernard SG

relationships are never easy

dranoel maxwell SG

yup it's true. When we guys ask the girls are they okay, they will say nothing then to prevent any conflict we guys will just shut up and take it as nothing. Then in the end they say we guys never care about them. Confused

dranoel maxwell SG

Well take it easy. Relationship is never meant to be easy as two people who are very different are to walk down the same path hand in hand. Neverthless time will tell if she's the one for you. Maybe you should try having a face to face talk in a peaceful manner and try to peace things out will with her. Then try to give in to each other.

dranoel maxwell SG

Well i admitt sometimes guys tends to let egos get the good of us. But sometimes some things we guys just cannot take it that's why we blow our top. I believe it's a mutual type of thing, where by both parties should try to understand and give in to each other.

trendz SG

agreed! Laughing

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