I can safely quote Lympathic cancer person.
One Lady, with 3 sons (all Scholars btw). She started with breast
& then proceed to Lympo cancer, struggled, live for 17 years
with her hubby taking care of her until she finally succumbed to
various lung infections about 4 years ago.
She died at age 50.
In the process, losing her breasts, her hair, constant chemo,
difficulty in walking, shitting and eating.
Another lady which I know. Had volatile Breast Cancer, she is
single and 45 years old. Had her breasts removed and she has
difficulties bringing up her arms. Her cancer is known as being
under remission. She has to try to cope on these for the past 10
years. And she is still a Volunteer and holding down a full time
secretarial job. She chooses to be alive, to help others.