A story of an affair with a married man in car trade.
Abt two years ago, i met a man name william on msn using the id
of leonong. We chat online almost everyday and feelings for him
grew. Realised that he was married but things still happened. This
man had been calling me a lot of things abt his work, his family
and how he felt. (pm me if anyone interested to see the
conversations of us in msn as i do save a copy)
At times he would keep me accompanied on late evening and
saturday afternoon before his wife Dawn found out.
We had a lot of good memories in the result became hurt. I had
plans and dreams in life before i met this man but he ruined it
indirectly. They had two children who currently studying in a
school located at serangoon north ave 4.
Things started to changed when i got my first pregancy with him
which happened in october 2008. He did nothing for me that time.
Even i insisted keeping the baby but finally managed to listened to
his sugar coated words and aborted it. William did not accompanied
me to the clinic but he went for a golf game with his friends. I
was very disappointed and angry with him as he went avoiding
me.
Two months later, he contacted me and we got hooked up again. On
that time was my worst time in my life as my dad was seriously ill.
He came with a sincere concern to me.
Another two months, later my dad passed away which he was the
closest to me in the family. The lost of both next of kin in 4
months wasn’t easy for me to cope. But when william called with
concern really made me stronger to face the reality.
All this doesn’t last long when i found out i’m pregant again
with his child. This time i insisted to keep the child. He was very
pissed of with me and left me. I were so lost and left singapore to
perth and work. Life in perth was slow but was not prefect for my
emotions. I went into depression stage during my 7th pregnancy
after william had left me waiting for his call overnight. I am
lucky to have a branch of supportive friends who flew in and check
on me.
Leon Tay, my son was finally born in perth. I went through his
citizenship in singapore and australia alone. I contacted william
but he refused to allow his name to be listed in leon’s birth cert
as he claimed that by doing this way his life will be very bad.
At first, i agreed as long as he do what a father should do for
leon. Now he went avoiding again.
Last week i called his office in yio chu kang, Dawn answered she
claimed that she do not want to know what is going on between me
and william. And i told her that i want to find william as he is
not answering his mobile phone.
William finally answered but was scolding me very angryily. If
he is what he claimed that my son Leon is not his, then why he
doesn’t want to go for a DNA test? Or is it
because Dawn doesn’t allow him to go? I don’t understand.
I fully understand that going through court can force him to
admit but with my peanuts pay i can’t afford a lawyer. Now william
hide like a mouse and dawn pretends to be an ostrich that hides her
head in the ground.
An adult should face the consequents of the beings and be
responsible for Leon.
Now his company is going down, william kept saying it is his
last chance but if god really have eyes then he should answer my
prayers.
I sincerely hope those who read this teach william what a man
should and not to aviod his responsibility as a father to my son
Leon.