U r in your mid 20s? Sorry, from ur lame topics, i tot u were a
lost teen!! I'm sorry, pls flame me 
U and ur mum seem irreconciliable. Very deep differences and
totally from different worlds.
I have asked myself before, "r u a gd son?" Matter of fact is, i
have seldom been one. So, i don't expect my folks to be gd parents
too. Most parents feel that they have done their job by just
putting food on the table, providing a shelter over our head and
enabling a basic education. Many have neglected the intrinsic devt
of their children.
They are from a totally different world. Just to share some food
for tot. 