are we losing or are we gaining

the_fallen SG

are we losing more and more friends as we age

or are we gaining more and more friends as we age?

from what i personally experience.

once you step into the working society, friends whom you once know will soon be forgotten unless there are some efforts made to stay as friends.

still find it quite hard to like have more and more friends as we grow older and older.

instead of this way that it should be. it's going the reverse way.

as we move house, change sch, work place, we lost contact with friends.
no attempts to make contact, keep on getting new 'friends' temp basis only.

once changed to another work environment, another few friends gone..

do any share the same problems? Sad

pwnz0r SG

My advice is that not too focus on having many friends, but cultivate a small pool of people that you can really establish stronger relationship with. Time is really lacking as people have their own lives, and it best to be good friends for a selected pool of people, rather than try to expand your network of friends.