Future Mother in Law

last SG · 2006-10-10T23:51:33+00:00

can't be helped. You are going to marry into his family. any M&A lawyer will tell you, any merger is always a mess... Take it in stride. DOn't let her a...

margarita SG

Asked to meet me alone without future hubby ...
Wat will she say to me?

mistyblue SG

take it easy...

there is no point worrying about it..

What will happen, will happen... jus take it in stride..

missqi SG

she will push you a cheque and.... Laughing

margarita SG

i hope ..
but i know she won't

aku1b0d0 SG

no la..shes bi mah..want to 'taste' u... Twisted Evil

margarita SG

plus one future sister in law that command that i meet my future mother in law

mistyblue SG

I live with my MIL...

take it easy.. you done no wrong, so there is nothing to worry about. Worry is a great waste of time

missqi SG

dont think so much la Wink
maybe she just wants to get to know you better?
Wink

dragg SG

coz she is poorer than you.

maybe she will ask you for a cheque.

Mr. Green

margarita SG

wat she say is not important but wat she does i sian liao .. the SIL commanding tone very boiling .. feel better to remain single ..

margarita SG

u r one of the amazing women Smile

margarita SG

tat's easy to settle ... i got many cheque book, can all give her . still keeping the old ones tat cannot use anymore ..

mistyblue SG

not that great, she also has to put up with my obessive need to be organized and clean
I put up with her forever messy, unwash and to me, rather scary habits ...

we are all humans ...
a little give and take...
so don't be so scared of meeting your future MIL..
she is after all another person, and the one who bring up you future husband...

margarita SG

doesn't give her rights to poke into our business ..
i'm marrying him not his mother n sisters ..
must marriage be so troublesome?

mistyblue SG

SILs, MILs .. all complicate issues ..

maybe its just a small thing. Maybe all the while these people talk like this..
so take it easy and don't think to much into it...

SingaporeMacross SG

youll have to go sooner or later, why delay?

margarita SG

scare lah .. later quarrel then no good. i temper no good also ..
single easier

margarita SG

cos no reason to meet n talk alone wif her ..
i not marrying her

mistyblue SG

its never this simple.
You are taking a space in her son's heart..
If I were the MIL, I would like to ensure the woman is a good one ...
however, how each MIL goes about finding out is different.

I met up with my MIL and known her for as long as I had been with my husband, so throughout, she had the time to measure me up.

margarita SG

can't stand the tot of she "measure" me ...

sound like Indian arranged marriage. the mother see the gal first, approve then the son see her ..