well, since it is not mentioned, we dun noe how bad the grudge
is. In any case, its personal and wakes are personal. Its entirely
his personal perogative as to who to invite to the wake - and we
shld respect.
He's already bad enough given the demise of someone close to him, I
guess he doesn't want his emotions further affected by your
presence bah. Leave it loh. Who wants to go to a wake ?
But then again, by doing / saying this, it does not do your
relationship with him any good. Wait until he has settled the
funeral and stuff, then maybe meet up to resolve the
misunderstanding bah.
For this time, leave it loh.
