Watching a family Member die +Heartless Singaporeans??

last SG · 2006-09-12T08:38:06+00:00

I hope your uncle is rotting in hell now

caleb_chiang SG

I'm speechless...

but put yourself in their shoes... they also have to make the person they are visiting happy mah... Then what, make the atmosphere so dead that the person still in the ward bed think that he is going to die as well?

laserboy SG

well i think people should start exercising their blardy EQ lah, if they have any t begin with tt is...

its quite obvious to me that if u see a family screaming and wailing away at their ailing relative.......

u wun be laughing and joking happily RIGHT NEXT TO THEM ba....

leoloe SG

Death is part of life. I ve come to terms with knowing that death isnt the end.

laserboy SG

so spiritual.... Shocked

alexkusu SG

death is only the beginning

snobbish SG

Earlier on while things were still ok and we my mum was massaging my uncle , that other family kept looking our side so it was obvious lying there was a young person (39 is young for men ba), and with all the comotion and drama even other ward people knew what was happening ba

snobbish SG

His Husky has not been eating since uncle T fell into Coma. Really. The Husky and his 'wife' need a home but they must be sold together. Refer my previous thread Smile http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=207306

Urroh SG

Death is a natural process, dun grieve too much.. My condolences.

dragg SG

you mean maybe they were telling their friend, "see, the guy opposite is dying, at least you are alive. cheer up!!" and they laughed!!!

what kind of logic is that???

ShutterBug SG

My deepest condolences.

Death is an undeniable part of life, I know how it is to watch helplessly while my father dies. I still have the prospect of watching my mother go in time to come.

Pain is what life is much about - emotional pain has no drugs for; only ACCFEPTANCE removes it.

snobbish SG

Oh my...hope your mum fights all odds and that your father is in peace

Where Is God SG

Don't be ridiculous.

why weren't you happy for them even though they were so happy? Why didn't you go up to them and congratulate the man on the bed for his speedy recovery?

If you didn't, then why do you expect them to do the same?

Rynax SG

You said "singaporeans are insensitive" cause someone is dying and they are happy. I think you are insensitive cause u think everyone has to feel like you for what is happening to you.

If you mother gave u a gameboy for christmas u would be very happy. Your friend get a tetris handheld and hes unhappy. Will u be sad at ur gameboy too ?

Pot calling the kettle black, Typical singaporeans.

jacqn SG

but at the very least, they can keep quiet. what is empathy?

LazerLordz SG

empathy is something not hard-wired into Singaporeans.

^spidee^ SG

My condolences, hope your Uncle is in a better place now…

BillyBong SG

It is perfectly valid for someone who has lost a close relative to become emotional.

But likewise it is also ethical to remain solemn when you are aware of people who are slipping away, even if they are not related to you.

Unfortunately, not everyone shares the same sentiment.

jacqn SG

because teacher never teach!

assfer SG

Snobbish, sorry to hear about that and my condolences.Please forgive those people laughing and joking while your uncle died. they are innocent too.I was ill for the past 1 whole week.

snobbish SG

Oh my, thats the most childish contradiction i have heard Laughing U are comparing a gameboy to a life? maybe your command of english understanding is not high thats why the whole thread you do not understand ba.. What a joke!

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