It's fine with me for my wife to read and look at the messages
and contacts in my phone cos me got nothing to hide from her... But
me don't look through hers cos me believe she should also have her
own space and privacy...
The thing is how much you trust her and how much she trusts you in
return... If you trust her to look through your phone, so be it...
And if you don't, let her know...
Mutual respect, mutual trust and communication are very important
to realise a true relationship and keep it going... 
