Has anyone have this type of experience b4?

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You have a stable girl friend.

Then one day a new girl came into your life.

You get to see her everyday, and slowly day by day without realising, you are getting closer and closer into each other's life.

You know its not right, and you tried to pull yourself out, but seem to fall deeper in, just like into quick sand..

Anyone?? Pls share your sentiments on this... Embarassed

Ito_^ SG

no, never. Laughing normally i can't see anyone else.

mistyblue SG

why are you seeing more of that girl than your gf?
Why did you allow that situation to occur in the first place ?

Bontakun SG

Have you no faith in your relationship with your GF?

FireIce SG

wat abt the ger?
she fallen for u oso?

Parka SG

You're so weak.

SMRT Buses SG

You gotta do something to rectify the problem before its too late…

^tamago^ SG

flowery hearted sia.... Laughing Rolling Eyes

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Because that gal is a new colleague from the same dept.

Colleague = see everyday

Girlfriend see on weekends only.. weekdays seldom meet up..

[email protected]_Devils.com SG

i have plenty of faith in this relationship.

in fact we have plans to get married.

^tamago^ SG

actually u're right. it was a bad experience. my female colleagues like to make noise and giggle and try to tease me whenever i'm on the phone with her (sometimes it's urgent and she needs my advice).

didn't make my life with my gf easier. turns out one of them in the dept likes me. heng is temp job. but then, she kind of contacted me a year later but we didnt have chemistry at tat time cos our life paths are rather different. so there u go. contribute liao....

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Erm.. as for this, i'm quite poor at telling this type of things leh Embarassed

at times, i can feel it...

missqi SG

u jerk.

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Such as??

Bontakun SG

Then you have no worries when you meet this new person who entered your life. You do not even need to post here since you know what are you doing.

mistyblue SG

You can only choose one and let the other go.

^tamago^ SG

learn from my experience leh.

to cherish ur r/s u need to be proactive..... dun be sitting duck or blur blur liao.... there is no second time....

^tamago^ SG

if u gf is quite sensitive, think dun see her after work is the best la.

if u wan to be frens with him only, then make sure she noes u have a gf. but i'd rather u play safe la, go with the option on top, esp when u wan to collapse liao. Rolling Eyes

mistyblue SG

marriage is a big commitment.
Do not go into it if you are unsure.

If such a small temptation already create this issue for you. Then you need to think hard if you want to get married at all or if you love your gf at all. Straying in marriage has a high consequence.

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She know that i have gf lah..

For now, we are still in 'safe zone'.. and i hope it will maintain that way..

Wink