I dont know... Maybe because I don't let those who are NOT nice
to me discourage me, that is why eventually the people who DO
appreciate it far outnumber those who don't.. and because of that,
I don't feel a deep seated bitterness at that few who dont show
appreciation and because of these people, change essentially what I
am and stop doing what I think is RIGHT.
And I dont think making coffee (if you are making ur own) and
sharing snacks is being 'nice'. It's just basic courtesy.
