Did she know that I like her?...

last SG · 2006-08-21T20:41:33+00:00

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fanasty SG

Hi all,

I'm new here so pls forgive me for my poor Eng and if i post this topic in the wrong forum.

I'm 25 and happened to know my colleague who is 21 when I join my new company 1+ mth ago this year. She is the 2nd girl that give me the feeling of "Yi Jian Zhong Qin" when I saw her on my first day of work. (the 1st girl was my ex-gf, break for almost 4 yrs)

In order to seek opportunities to get close to her, I will always alight the same place with her after work, making excuse to buy dinner or having dinner with her. And because of this, I got to know her that she is still single currently.

So dear all can tell me whether she can sense my "Signal" after these 2 events already occured...

Event 1:
On her birthday, I gave her a present (small crystal chain for hanging handphone) and told her a stupid reason that I got the crystal chain for free and asked her whether she want it or not. (Cause I afraid she might reject my gift) She smile and accepted my present and asked me : "You buy one is it? don't bluf me la..." That time I was so paiseh and quickly think of something to reply her : "Shiiiii... don't tell anyone want about this ok?". Then we both laugh.

Event 2:
Successfully got to ask her out on one wkend on my 1st try to go orchard. (Cause she won some vouchers during my Company's dinner. So I made an excuse that I want to go orchard to buy something and ask her whether she is interested to join me so that she can also see what to buy with the vouchers.) We do window shopping togather, chit chatting along the way, then had dinner. I want to treat her the dinner but she reject, even the drinks too. We shop around 10+ and we took MRT togather. Knowing that she will be alighting different station from me, I bluf her (I really don't want to, but this is a rare chance to be with her) that I later still meeting my "friend' for midnight movie and will alight same MRT with her cause I still have plenty of time to spent before I meeting my "friend". We got into the SBS bus and alight on the bus stop near her house. Just as we going to seperate at the bus stop, she said she will accompany me until the time when i meeting my "friend". Wow, so happy man, and we went to a coffee shop for drinks. This time round I brought mineral water for her, she insist to pay me back but I rejected. We sit there for around 1 hour chatting and when time almost there, I told her my "friend" last min msg me that the appointment cancelled. With this, I made an excuse to see her home (time around 12+ and the way to her home quite dark) before I going back.

About her:

Her character is like the S.H.E Ella (a bit boyish) but her apperance is very feminine. What I know some girls are very easy going, Going out alone with a guy doesn't mean that she is interested on the guy, she is just treating the guy as a normal friend only (This is what I worried about). And the way she talk to me is quite normal, like the same she talks to everyone else. Cause what I know if girls talking to a guy who she is interested with, her attitude will be a bit different. (Shy, talk softly, etc...)

One more thing is that she is planing to go for overseas studies (got a feeling that this is the reason why she is now still single and not having of bf/gf relationship). If we really being togather, I afraid that we might break off because of this...

Ok now, can she sense that I interested on her? Creating opportunities to get close to her or is it my acting too good that she really didn't realise it?

Also can advice me on the below options? Whether I shall

a) Confess to her when the time is ripe. (Planing on Christmas providing that time she is still unattach)
b) Confess to her immediately.
c) Remain as friend.

Thanks for all who spent their time reading this post, and any advice reply will be appreciated.

Thanks & regards.

CoolMyth SG

Reveal your feelings. For better or worse, at least you know where you stand in her heart.

Better than leaving this thing hanging there forever. Wink

FireIce SG

i feel that u shd not be always bluffing her

ha8n SG

actually depends on type of girls :

u told her ,she never reject even though she had bf ( u dont know this also wat but can tell its easy to detect her behaviour when she so happily flirt with other guys>>though she says its her "behaviour" )

u never told her as for guys its embarassing ; but make sure she also like u also /feeling or else i pray for u ..all the best n do not wan 2see u hurt more .. Laughing

Qing^.^ SG

Confessing to her when the time is ripe will be a good choice.

Your choice of Christmas is timely too, since theres still 4 months to go and you have time to develop your feelings with her and get to know her more. Wink

Anyway must confess, you never try you never know Mr. Green

dark_snowboy SG

dont regret if you never confess, my humble advice

Classyfied SG

ahahaha...seems u like her very the much...CONFESS..IF NOT NOW DO IT TML!!.dun regret if u stay single forever Laughing

SGpork SG

Rolling Eyes

Mr. Green

good luck

n yes try not to bluff her lei..

wxboi SG

Confess : Got chance , Answer is either yes or no . so, 50% chance.
don confess : no chance

Confess lah.. jiayou ! Wink

de_middle SG

just when you found a place to eat.....u go sh1t there.....but anyway GOOD LUCK, maybe it'll turn out for the better, who knows Very Happy

carlsonxjd SG

nxt time juz tell her, u wan walk her home. dun make excuses. that will giv a better hint u interserted in her.

ölala SG

"HI"
welcome to sgforums!

technoboy SG

Definetely confess when the time is ripe.. Smile

Cool-gal SG

confess lor, at least u noe got chance or not, if not, can stop wasting ur time. and oso, dun take too long to confess coz if drag too long, tat kind of courting feeling will eventually fade which wont give her any excitement. strike while the rod is damn super hot or hot oso can.

pwnz0r SG

Question, I'm not sure if I perceived wrongly, but the impression I get is that you can't ask her out without an excuse. I.e., there is still some difficulty or friction to ask her out.

Usually if a girl likes you, it is very easy to arrange time out together.

Just remember you do not need an excuse to ask her out. Just go out with her. Don't worry too much.

JerzZzzZ SG

yup, i agree with this. it's perfectly normal, and only gentlemanly for the guy to send the lady home on a date (i define date as a guy and a girl going out together).

anyway, the fact that you asked her out already lets her know that you like her. and the fact that she offered to accompany you till your 'friend' is here shows that she likes you. but don't get the wrong idea, friends like each other too.

you'll need to do a lot more for her to know that you like her in a way more than a friend does. an easier (or more difficult, actually) way is to confess. but don't rush it, unless you feel the affinity/chemistry is really there. otherwise, good luck. Smile

Axelheat755 SG

She definitely knows u are interested... Twisted Evil Mr. Green

choco B SG

Dang you're such a player LOL Very creative leh, should charge for consultation LOL
Go for it lah, I think she's quite receptive to you

a_x SG

With so many bluffs, I wonder how you're able to sleep at night. Wink

Okay, on a serious note, you may want to go for the option 1. But it doesn't have to wait for Christmas. It just shows that you are indecisive. And not sure yourself about your feeling to her.

Take one step at the time. Don't unnecessarily worry about whether she's planning to study abroad. Good luck, bro.

pwnz0r SG

Blah, ask now already. Quick, just walk to her desk and ask her go kopi.