No one can deem that you are USELESS, unless you believe that
YOU ARE!
Confidence begins with your inner-self - don't care what others may
say, or think of you.
Do what you can, do it to the best of your own abilities, and STOP
comparing yourself with others.
You make your self, not the people around you.
Even if your character is similar to a girl, then make use of your
high EQ - girls are great social engineers. Engineer yourself to
succeed or achieve whatever your golas may be.