Its absolutely intolerable for that they eat on us, and still
criticises (not in a constructive manner) about how stupid we
are.
Give them a break? Why should we tolerate them? More like they
tolerating us. As the saying goes "In Rome, do what the Romans do",
not " In Rome, the Romans do what you do"
Yar, and why bother giving them sympathy? You are just committing
suicide. They (most of them) will make use of you, then get what
they want (ie. Fly to USA)
, with you over here crying.